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April 9, 2015
Dear Mom (我的寶貝四千金) Episode 82
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April 9, 2015
seriously, i think what hui qin did was right. qq deserved it caused she indeed done smth wrong and karma will come. i don’t know why people side her.
HQ is actually the one who was the most ridiculuous. She never appear before beside her husband. Even when their marriage anniversary, she was not there for her husband. It is also why JK fell for QQ since QQ is the one who as an outsider remembered better about that.
I think HQ was just not mature enough to understand that there is no more love and respect in their marriage to keep the marriage going on.
Jk really needs to get punched!:@ And he needs to kneel down too! What a disgusting scumbag!
This mother is ridiculous. She doesn’t bother listening to her own daughter’s side of things. Typical traditional chinese mother.
QQ does not get a voice. She was wrong! She should never get involve with a married man. If she did not know, then she is not at fault. However, she knew what she was getting into when she hooked up with JK. If I am the mother, I would have slapped her. I agreed with the mom, especially since the first or second episode, the mom already expressed that it is NOT RIGHT and MORALLY WRONG to be with a married man.
Dude, she ended the relationship. Give her some credit. Yeah it’s not right, she knew that. Why do you think she ended it even if it hurt so bad? Besides, she felt guilty enough about it and she went against her morals. Give her some credit.
Credit is given not just for the decision someone made, credit is given when one is brave enough to take the responsibility of your action as well (i.e., consequences of having an affair with a married man). Yes she ended it but ending something does not erase that she began something in the first place. It does not erase that she has hurt the wife and does not erase that the wife has not right to try to salvage her marriage. Does not HQ be given credits to try to save something that she believes to be rightfully hers. I think HQ has endured a lot and put up with a lot. The way QQ acted is as if her decision of breaking up cancelled the fact that She entered into someone marriage. Well unfortunately it does not. The wrong is done and the hurt is done. It takes courage to end it. But it takes more courage to bare the consequences of her action. If this marriage ends in divorce, she may not entirely cost it but she will remain always be one of the equation, no matter how many time she apologize. There are consequences in every action to you and to others.
Also is interesting how people support AQ when she was the wife whose husband had an affair despite her effort to safe her marriage, but not the same sympathy is given to HQ. She suffers the same. In fact by someone trusted also. Which woman could just sit back and do nothing. The fact she did not tell anyone but quietly try to get her husband back by showing support showed good character. I think for HQ not to do this, it is unrealistic. In real live, worst things would have been said and done in this situation.
Thank you, Rebecca, I completely agree with you. I personally know the feeling of having someone you trust as a close friend betray you in that same manner, much like what QQ did to HQ and to be honest HQ handled it a whole lot better than me. She tried and tried to let it go and be good to her husband and not blame QQ until the very end. She held it together very well and any normal human being would have broken down and did the same thing. I really feel for HQ and AQ….both girls in their storyline went through an incredibly difficult time. A close friend of mine became the third wheel in my relationship and even after more than a year….the wound is still very deep. QQ got what she deserved and honestly, she deserves even more shit. I can’t imagine being a mom of a daughter like QQ…I would probably disown her. Anyway, just wanted to pitch in my two cents to his discussion and thanks again for your input Rebecca!
Haha so true, “typical traditional Chinese mother”
But I don’t think Li Mama was being “ridiculous”. When Li Mama asked QQ if the affair was true, the way QQ replied really did make it seem like it was her fault. Also I’m sure Li Mama will eventually listen to QQ’s side of the story and be more understanding. Just like a normal human being, when you hear something you don’t like, it’s hard to not get upset and want to hear both sides. Just give Li Mama some time 😉 And yes QQ does deserve some credit for trying to end it 🙂
how is she ridiculous? It doesnt matter what QQ says, its wrong whatever she says. Shes not suppose to break into someone elses marriage in the first place….
Well … ok … end of QQ and JK story .. lets move on with AQ and QL .. not completely closed out with Tom back. I hope Li Mama can forgive QQ and XS
hui qi looks a little distorted and a little low voice when she said qing qing interfered her marriage. guess tats how a woman tats totally snapped off looks like. a little off, but i really have to say she totally engross in tat feel at tat moment. cant say she is crazy, evil or even intentionally to hurt their family back, bcos those tat she done cant really explain all of wat she gone thru pain mentally. just hope ji kuan would wake up from here and do the right things like meant it back.
i thought so too! that she finally lost it and dont know what shes doing anymore and maybe she really didnt want to hurt the family intentionally. idk, but i think the actress did well. hahaha
in fact i think hui qi felt a little regret? when li ma ma start apologising..
and on the other hand, no one seems to see Tom is on qi le’s nerves~ lol
yea. the way she lost herself outside when she fell to the floor, when she said she diidnt want to hurt li mama, it felt real and sincere, she just lost it and didnt know what to do?
i totally did. am i the only one who felt that qi le showed tom the watch on purpose? i mean, didnt the watch spoil when an qing dropped it the time she met qi le? even if its working, i somehow feel its his way of “shi wei” to tom that an qing is his. HAHAHA
I have the same feeling about the watch part! And, you know, when he told Tom THEY were heading back HOME for dinner~~
Gotta love QL’s “passive aggressiveness” hahaha!
so glad i wasnt the only one reading too much into it. plus he confidently say “i believe i’m an qing and jerry’s future” AWWWW!!!!!!!
Really crazy. What hui qi cannot make the husband return to her. She need to teach qi kuan not QQ…waste time n energy
qq deserved it. just because she broke up with jk doesn’t mean she didn’t enter someone’s marriage, still can talk back when hq was talking.____.” don’t understand why aq wanna raise her voice wth you yourself was once a victim and you actually side with your sister…… feel so sad for hq
i just said that too in my comment below. qq make herself look like the victim and suffering and seem so pathetic, but in actual fact she could’ve walked away from it but she chose to carry on anyway. feelings cannot be controlled but actions can. she chose to carry on with it despite an qing asking her to stop from the minute she found out, so qq need to answer for it. she did afterall, spark off the whole matter to turn it into a divorce.
anw, i think an qing raised her voice bcuz she spilled that infront of the mum and end up the mum is gonna be really really hurt, while she wants to protect her sister too, but shes also protecting the mum. plus, hui qi did lie or msiunderstand about her asking jk to divorce hui qi.
i know right!!
Lol I was like “SHUT DA F* UP, BITCH” when QQ talked back while HQ was talking. I hope QQ faces more serious consequences! I just can’t stand her from day 1, always acts like she’s soooo mature, what a bitch! Now it’s just the Mom who’s hurting the worst, I feel really sorry for the Mom. :'(
i thought i was the only one haha! yeah if I’m hq, i would probably beat her up real bad and make her life difficult!! the mum is so innocent ):
Agree, I have the same comment too!
This part really teaches us all daughters and sons a good lesson – whatever wrongs we’ve done outside, it’s the parents who hurt the most at the end of the day (geez the Mom acts so darn well!! My heart aches just to see her reaction and facial expression!) ! The best way to honour our parents is to behave ourselves, be honest & righteous, and do good at all times.
Respect to all parents (esp. Moms!) in the world!
i really wanna thumbs up your comment!!!!!
yes!!!!!!!!!!
Yes. I agree with you too. We follow the examples of and actions of the parents. If your son/daughter made a mistake, the parents has to be the one to take at least part or most of the blame.
QQ loves and respects her parents and her family and yet she wasn’t able to end it soon enough. Now that the secret is out, I hope QQ bears the pain and weight on her shoulders. Its going to be a while for Li Mama to forgive her.
100% agreed! 🙂
yeah!!!(:
AQ’s behavior is understanding. If my sister would do, I scold, and forbid, but yet I will be next to her despite of her mistakes (against the wife). It’s difficult situation. AQ already slapped her. only one regret that the boss.haven’t get punch… QQ got more from her family(but she deserved).
yeah someone should’ve punch him!!!!
I think AQ raise her voice is to protect her mom, from hear something that will hurt her mom. She worry about her mom will down if hear the truth…
i think the problem is that JK didn’t show his attitude properly. i always feel like he enjoys that feeling of between the two ladies. QQ has done what she needs to leave him. HQ has done all her best in getting their marriage back together. seriously, JK is the only that seems effortless. his attitude is what leads to all of these. it was heartbreaking when i saw li mama was disappointed.
I agree with HQ, she can like this today all because of the stupid jerk JK.
QQ also wrong, good that her mum found out. Dun blame HQ.
AQ somemore dare to raise up her voice to HQ, her sister is the one who did wrong!
I think JK would have broken up with HQ at some point.. all QQ did was made it happen quicker. JK found out he liked QQ even before she admitted it to him anyways.. HQ is just batshit crazy.. She’s just wanting to take everyone else down with her now that she can’t have what she wants.. She should just move on or at least let JK want to chase her back, not acting all victim and sulky..
actually, idk if she’s acting or she means it that she doesnt meanto hurt li mama. she seemed pathetic, like someone who totally lost everything and lost her mind because she cant take it anymore. while i hated her actions, i really pity her too. i guess if you put yourself in her shoes, shes someone who doesnt speak out or says what shes feeling and when she found out about the affair she didnt dare to even quarrel or confront because she cant lose ji kuan who is her world, and shes her world is just surrounding him. sigh =
but then……. THIS EPISODE IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME. DON’T UNDERSTAND THE DIRECTOR. YOU’VE GOT TOO MUCH LOOSE ENDS HANGING AROUND AND YOU WASTED A WHOLE EPISODE ON HUI QI? GODDDDDDDDDDD -_____________________-
It might be an episode that most fans of the show wouldn’t like. But I think it is a very apt and appropriate. I guess the director and the writers wanted to emphasize in this episode the reality that despite the regret of Qing Qing and her having broken up with Ji Kuan, the fact remains that a marriage has been broken. It is supposed to make people realize that with every action, there is a corresponding consequence. Many may not agree with the episode’s theme, but I think it is in line with the show’s over all thrust… an emphasis on FAMILY. Most of us watching the show pitied and emphatized with An Qing when her husband betrayed her, isn’t it also right that when someone in their family does someone wrong, she must also bear the repercussions?
you know, actually i agree with you. infact i’m happy the mother found out. because qingqing need to faceup to the consequences too. afterall she did something she shouldnt. but i just don’t like the fact that the end is in 2 episodes bt there are too many loose ends lying around, as a huge fan that followed this show from day 1, i’m disappointed and sad that the end is so rushed. but oh wells…
oh and the part she still answered back that she didnt ask him to divorce her? i feel qq should’ve just shut up because they wont even be divorcing because of her. but… (well according to JK he worked hard to avoid her so maybe it would eventually become a divorce) so yea.
i jsut want the an qing – qi le couple to have a good ending and fo r the family to accept yu hang, but no news of yi wan’s preggie toooooo 🙁
at first i feel pity of HQ but after watch this eps geeeezzzz im getting annoying of her..and i feel like HQ a lil bit horibble
I don’t think HQ meant to hurt QQ’s family. Like she said “I just wanted to apologize to Li Mama”.
ohmygod I hate Huiqi
Why? What says or does she? Because I don’t know the language. Just she said out the truth, didn’t she? I can’t hate because I understand her pain and anger. Just I feel sorry for her and the mom
I sympathise for Huiqi. I don’t think what she did was hateful. Instead, I think many women would have lost their minds and done something similar if their husbands had an affair (especially with the husband’s secretary whom you trusted so much). I honestly think Huiqi has already done a great job holding back her emotions for such a long time and trying to calm herself and save her marriage.
Only because the mistresses is one of the lead actress this time, she seems to gain much sympathy from the audience, which is what I don’t agree. Rather than hating Huiqi for what she did to the Mom, I hate what QQ did “in the name of love” more.
QQ is simply no difference to all other 小三s in the entire world, always crying about how much pain she’s in for falling in love with the wrong guy, but in fact she’s the one who created such misery for herself in the first place. Don’t forget, she was the one who made the decision and said “We go to hell together” to her boss — so this is it now, “hell” has come, please stop crying and just SHUT DA F*** UP, this is what you should have excepted and what you deserve!
*expected
you know, hui qi is like a ticking time bomb. she held everything in for too long, trying to salvage the marriage that didnt work in the end. can we really blame her for doing this? it;s like the catalyst have been building and eventually boomed.
That’s exactly what I think and I can’t agree more!
Imagine if HQ was the lead actress in this drama…everybody would be so happy that she finally stands up for herself and gives the bitch a big slap!
Yes, she was trying to hold it in and be nice to both her husband and QQ when she came back from her business trip. There was only so much she could endure. I was surprised she waited this long to express her feelings.
On a happy note, I think the actress who played HQ did a very good job acting out the scene. It showed all of the emotions and anger of a married woman being in pain and cheated by her husband and his secretary. I totally felt goosebumps while watching this scene and episode.